One of the ways to get sexual pleasure and orgasm that people have come up with is fisting . This is a very controversial practice.
There are many subtexts in it, it is difficult to say unequivocally: is fisting good or bad? Someone may frankly want to try to do it, for someone it will cause aggression, protest. There is a lot of harm in practice, but there are also benefits. How to make the right decision?
What it is
The name of the sexual practice comes from the English word ” fist “, meaning “fist”. When talking about fisting , they mean inserting fingers into the vagina of a woman, the rectum of a woman or a man ( fingering ), a fist of one or two hands, toes or feet, sex toys.
Kinds:
- vaginal;
- anal;
- double.
If we talk about anal, it has to do with sexual pleasure. Vaginal can easily be mistaken for a spiritual or medical practice that has nothing to do with human sensuality, orgiastic experiences. Double – for professionals.
It involves the introduction of both hands, fingers of both hands or two palms into the vagina, anus.
Making it is easy. It consists of rotations, groping, movements imitating frictions , gapping (stretching for the purpose of inspection). Fantasy and intuition will come in handy, which will tell you what to do.
You can do it yourself. Then it’s masturbation. It is possible together with a partner – it will be a kind of sexual intercourse.
From the point of view of a doctor and a lawyer
What is better than fisting to help a woman prepare for childbirth? Someone will say that sports, including sex building , weightlifting. And someone will say that all this is good in combination with fisting and does not contradict it.
The elasticity of the vagina, the condition of the muscles, the organs of the pelvis mean a lot during childbirth. The baby’s skull remains flexible, but the sooner the baby comes out, the less stress for everyone. Frequent problems during childbirth are ruptures of the vagina and uterus. Sometimes doctors have to cut open the entrance to the vagina.
This, of course, is not a practice for pregnant women – the natural microflora in the vagina, cervix, the absence of spasms, including from orgasm, is a prerequisite for normal childbirth, the health and safety of the fetus.
There are no official statistics on the health benefits of the practice for women, and they will not appear soon. Injuries from those that can be received during classes are not compatible with life.
In the case when a person inflicted physical injuries on himself, the motives will be investigated and it will be established whether this was suicide. Suicidal tendencies are a severe moral and psychological state, a personality trait that needs to be corrected.
Suicide is an antisocial act. If the injury was received during a joint fisting with a partner, this led to death, the actions will be interpreted from the standpoint of the Criminal Code as negligent homicide. Everything must be done correctly to avoid consequences.
To fisting can not be persuaded by anyone and never. Experiments on humans are prohibited. Only the person himself can decide on this. Persuasion, claims, deceit, tricks, blackmail are completely inappropriate. There is no evidence for him. This is unnatural.
Another controversial aspect of this practice, without which it is impossible, is that examples of such sexual behavior cannot be found in nature.
This is a 100% human invention that characterizes the “creativity” of the species, which sometimes, alas, attracts, encourages people suffering from bestiality to act.
This cannot be practiced with a beloved female dog, even to facilitate the birth process, which is spelled out in the Criminal Code of almost any state.
Bullying of vertebrate animals entails criminal liability. What is fisting – everyone decides for himself and yet, at the heart of the practice is humanity, altruism, self-love without selfishness.
G-spot or Grafenberg Zone
One of the reasons for these activities is the desire to improve the quality of their intimate life.
Back in the 50s of the twentieth century, scientists started talking about point G. It was found by the German gynecologist Ernest Grafenberg .
He discovered that the female vagina, although it does not have sensitive receptors, still contains a sensitive zone.
He suggested that the point in the front of the vagina (the wall adjacent to the abdomen) is something like the prostate in men. It is in the range from 2.5 to 7.5 cm. Grafenberg associated sensitivity at the G-spot with the proximity of the pubic bone, the urethra.
An erogenous zone is a part of the body in which nerve endings are concentrated.
Later, after carefully testing the Grafenberg hypothesis , scientists found that there is no accumulation of nerve endings in the vagina. However, erogenous zones can be found not only where there is sensitivity.
The reason for the emergence of non-standard zones is the fixation of the pleasure of the libido. The erogenous zone is associated with emotions, sensory, bodily memory and slightly – with physiology, anatomy. It is about such a place that we can talk, because many women claim that the G-spot exists.
From the point of view of the physiology and anatomy of a woman, it is more logical to assume that the G-spot is located at the back wall of the vagina (from the back, spine).
Nerve endings can replace the proximity of the intestines, internal organs.
Their stimulation, massage can be a physical pleasure, the source of which is the peculiarities of intestinal motility, digestion, the reaction of the psyche to changes in hormonal levels.
This proves that point G (as it is also called – Grafenberg Zone ) can exist.
Consequences
For everyone who wants to relieve stress, get rid of accumulated emotional tension, unleash the natural potential, test the capabilities of the body, this is an attractive practice.
But these are unfamiliar and unusual sensations. Therefore, after fisting , nervous tension and a change in the emotional background may appear. Everything can end in a nervous breakdown.
What to do to prevent this from happening?
An optimistic attitude, knowing what you want, what the result looks like, will compare what is happening and what is desired, and stop the process in a timely manner. Other consequences are possible, not only changes in the emotional background after a collision with the unknown.
These include:
- risk of rupture of the vagina or colon;
- infectious diseases;
- violation of microflora;
- encopresis (fecal incontinence);
- organ deformity.
The main danger is the rupture of the vagina, the colon. It is necessary to follow all the rules that are developed by professionals. They are effective and reduce risks.
To study the history of the issue, to find out as much information as possible will not be superfluous. Sex toys, related products will also help. But without care, patience is indispensable. Features should be noticed, taken into account. The price of negligence is life, this contradicts the meaning of practice.
Infectious diseases are also a threat. All sexually transmitted diseases can be transmitted during fisting . And this is HIV, and syphilis, and genital herpes, and much more. At the first symptoms, you should consult a doctor.
Follow the rules of hygiene. The intestinal microflora is not in vain called conditionally pathogenic. An imbalance of bacteria can lead to the development of a number of diseases.
Not the last possibility of developing encopresis – fecal incontinence.
Of great importance is the frequency of classes, the level of psychological comfort and discomfort. The muscles of the rectum are under conscious control. And if there is a problem after class, most likely it is a psychological condition.
There is a possibility that mechanical damage to certain sections of the colon is to blame. Only a doctor and complex diagnostics can determine the cause of the development of pathology.
Deformation of the genital organs, loss of muscle tone, persistent unnatural stretching, shapelessness are some of the possible consequences of the abuse of this type of sexual intercourse. Fisting seeks to break the laws of nature and this is dangerous.
Plastic surgery on the genitals is not uncommon. They restore normal proportions, physiotherapy returns the usual muscle activity. The reasons for such a deformation are inattention, loss of control.
Basic Rules
Compliance with these rules will reduce the risks.
- There should be no pain.
It is a source of positive feelings, confidence.
Feelings can be close to orgasm, be orgasm, they can be different, but this is definitely not pain. You need to carefully consider your own feelings, try to clearly identify .
- Preparation for the practice lasts about a month.
There is no hurry, deciding on an experiment. You have to research the theory before you do it: history, rules, techniques, anatomy, whatever you can find. Need to buy lubricants , sex toys. Lubricants will relax during anal, help to get the result quickly.
It is better to choose products without a thermal effect , so as not to reduce the degree of pleasure. Sex toys will allow you to explore your body, diversify your pleasure, and get a good effect. Sometimes they are not needed at all.
Prelude is important. Sexual arousal is more than desirable. A trusting relationship is essential between partners.
Nails should be trimmed, it is advisable to use medical latex gloves – to prevent injury. An enema helps to eliminate the remnants of feces, but this is not particularly necessary – feces enter the rectum from the upper intestines. Sometimes it is more rational to prefer a diet: add foods rich in fiber to the diet.
Fiber improves intestinal motility.
- Everything should happen after realizing and accepting all the risks and responsibility.
Fisting is not only sexual intercourse. This is a practice that has philosophical overtones. It does not contradict the aesthetics of the genitals, natural processes, emphasizes them.