Oral caresses are part of the sexual game that both men and women love. And if the caresses of a man’s penis, even for an inexperienced partner, easily end in an orgasm, then it is not so easy to bring a lady to the highest pleasure.
And those men who know how to do cunnilingus correctly deserve true respect. So is it possible to learn how to do lanette , or is this art available only to the elite?
How important are oral sex
If a woman claims that she does not like oral sex, then she has never been with a man who knows how to lick properly. Of course, there is a category of representatives of the weaker sex who consider lesbian sex something shameful and terrible, but, as a rule, these are the girls who have not tried it yet or really dream about it. All the other ladies who managed to experience the pleasure of oral sex claim that it can not be compared with anything.
According to sexologists, an orgasm with cunnilingus is brighter and stronger than with vaginal penetration. But to make a woman experience it, you need to learn how to do it correctly and gently. Not only the technique of caresses is important, the atmosphere in which the lanette is carried out is important. The penetration of the male mouth into the innermost part of the female body enhances the girl’s sense of her own sexuality, she feels desired, loved, which makes her body react to caresses more strongly.
Men who caress their partner orally are also often highly aroused, because the concept of their exclusiveness increases their self-esteem.
After all, a woman will not allow the first partner she comes across into the holy of holies of her body – such trust must be earned. And it is very important that at this moment the technique is at its best and the woman gets the sensations that she dreamed about, or even those that she could only guess about. And in order to give her such sensations, it is important to learn how to do the layet correctly.
Where to begin?
It is important not only to correctly perform the movements, the main thing is to achieve moral intimacy with a partner, her complete trust. If spiritual contact is established, you can begin.
Lesbian sex, like ordinary sex, begins with foreplay. It is important to warm up her imagination, to hint that you have a desire to please her with your mouth and tongue. This can be done with words, whispering about intentions in your ear, or with gestures: stroking and touching in the groin area. It is important to make your partner want cunnilingus: the anticipation of such pleasure will increase the excitement several times. But making her wait for a long time is also not worth it – a light and gentle massage with kisses from her mouth to a secret place will be an excellent start to cunnilingus.
Approaching the cherished place, you can slightly “slow down”. You should not immediately go directly to the lanette : a gentle massage with the lips of the inner side of the thigh and lower abdomen, playing with the tongue with the navel will help the woman become more aroused and simply languish with desire. Also, the pre-excitation technique includes caresses with hands. Stroking not only intimate places, but also the arms, legs, face of the partner is extremely important. The main thing is to start right – before penetrating a woman with your mouth, caress the edges of the vagina with your fingers.
This can be done gently and gently, or it can be done confidently and assertively. Such caresses with fingers will introduce an element of surprise: while waiting for oral sex, the partner will receive touches that will slightly cool her ardor and make her demand the promised pleasure. In the end, such a game will only warm up her feelings and excite her even more. And when a shiver passes through the body from this excitement, it will be possible to proceed directly to cunnilingus.
At the first stage, it is important to “study” the girl, especially if oral sex took place for the first time and there is little experience in this matter. A gentle massage of the walls of the vagina with the tongue, performed in a circular motion, will “tell” about the first emotions of the partner.
After several such movements, you can begin to suck on the clitoris or labia. The caress technique in this case implies a periodic change of movements, because with the monotony, addiction sets in and the excitement gradually disappears.
If you do the layet correctly, the sensitivity will never dull, and the woman will be able to reach the highest point of pleasure – orgasm.
Therefore, it is important to listen to your partner: by the nature of her movements and moans, you can easily understand whether she likes this process or something goes wrong. It is also correct not to change the rhythm and movements when a woman is nearing completion, as this may throw her off and she will not be able to reach orgasm.
Experienced lovers attribute this to an element of sexual play – they bring the partner almost to the peak and cut off the caresses, thus making her more excited. But only men who have mastered all the rules of the lanette and are confident in their abilities can do this. At the first stages of training, it is better to refrain from such games.
Woman oral sex techniques
The first technique for satisfying a partner with the mouth is caressing with the help of the tongue. To do this, the tongue needs to be straightened in such a way that it becomes wide, this will help to cover a large area of \u200b\u200bthe vagina.
But in order to carry out a wet and gentle stimulating massage of individual points, you only need the tip of the tongue. So, by changing the volume and size of the tongue, you can carefully examine the female vagina, gradually increasing the intensity of movements. Many women enjoy moving the tongue back and forth into the vagina to mimic the movement of the penis. A partner is unlikely to be able to achieve an orgasm, but such movements will undoubtedly give pleasant sensations.
When caressing the tongue, special attention should be paid to the clitoris. Its sensitivity is several times higher than that of the glans penis, and then you need to do a gentle massage with your tongue very carefully. Often an inexperienced partner can hurt with strong stimulation, so you need to start caressing the clitoris with very light touches. It is important to monitor the partner’s emotions so that the moans of pleasure do not become cries of pain.
The next type of movement is sucking. In this case, you can do the lanette with sucking and sipping movements. You can suck on any part of the female external genital organs: small and large labia, clitoris, skin areas. Such movements can be combined with pulling to the sides, and a gentle massage with the tongue can add emotions.
The intensity of sucking can be changed, increasing as the woman is aroused. But here it is important to correctly calculate the forces, since too much pressure will cause pain. You can add biting to the sucking movements, but this must be done very carefully and carefully.
The next horse technique is called “trumpet playing”, and it will take some practice to master it. During oral sex, you need to position your lips near the partner’s clitoris so that you feel a slight touch of it.
Lips need to be folded into a tube and blow on the clitoris, imitating the game on the instrument of the same name. The fact that the technique is correct will tell two points. The first is the vibration of the air between the lips and a light sound, and the second is the groan of the partner’s pleasure. In this case, you need to breathe through the nose. The positions of the mouth can be changed by moving in a circular motion over the clitoris and nearby parts of the vagina. It is important that the lips easily touch the genitals of a woman, then such a gentle massage will give her the highest pleasure.
But what you should not do is blow into the vagina, especially if a woman is preparing to become a mother.
Intensive air penetration can lead to various internal injuries, so this technique is unacceptable for use in the vagina.
To replace it in this place may well be finger movements. Hands are an essential component of any oral sex technique. As the Eastern sages say, “as long as you have at least one finger, you remain a man.” You can caress your partner with your fingers with any technique.
They are inserted into the vagina, stroking the external genitalia with their hands, pressing on the clitoris, etc. The combination of tongue and fingers can bring any woman to orgasm and diversify her usual intimate life.
Rules for performing oral sex
The main weapon of a man in the technique of performing oral sex is his tongue and fingers. But there are a number of rules that should be followed in order to facilitate the process for a partner and help a woman achieve an orgasm. These are simple but important things that should not be forgotten.
And the first such thing is a pillow. By placing it under the partner’s ass, it will be possible to raise her pelvis, thereby facilitating the process of penetration of the tongue into the vagina.
Such a device will help her relax, and the partner will be more comfortable, because the vagina will be at the level of his face.
It is important not only to slowly descend to the partner’s intimate place, but also to gently push her legs apart. No need to do it abruptly and strongly – such an invasion can scare the girl away and kill any desire for intimacy.
You can open your partner a little, so that it is enough just to get closer to the cherished place, and when the excitement intensifies, spread your legs in a way that will be convenient for both.
Oral caresses should be gentle and accurate. All movements should be started slowly, increasing their intensity gradually, as the lady is excited. It is important to listen to the feelings of a woman so as not to hurt her and not to lose sensitivity.
It is important not to forget about other parts of the body. The partner’s face, arms and legs, her chest, stomach and buttocks also need attention. You can caress them with your hands, stroking and pinching, as in normal sex.