Despite the fact that most people fantasize about the topic of group sex, not everyone decides to try it in practice. The impressions of those who nevertheless ventured on such an adventure are different.
To summarize, group sex will appeal to couples who have recently been together and don’t take partner’s affair on the side to heart. But most of them are in no hurry to repeat this pleasure. Couples who have been together for many years, such an experiment can lead to unhappiness and the destruction of relationships.
Even if they liked everything very much, almost everyone suffers mentally. Jealousy creeps into the relationship, confidence disappears, thoughts appear that the partner likes to have sex with another (another).
Why do we want this?
The main reason for the emergence of such desires is our laziness. We want to “refresh” our sex life without any special effort. The easiest way to invite someone else to bed. Many are simply excited by the spectacle of copulation (which is why it is so interesting for us to watch erotica). It is also always interesting what tricks others use. And finally – the forbidden fruit is sweet! Interestingly, both men and women like the combination of two women and one man more than two men and one woman.
It may seem that a threesome is a great solution for couples who are bored with each other but do not want to leave or have an affair behind a partner’s back. When everything happens before your eyes, it seems that this is not a betrayal. Many consider the third in bed a pleasant addition, but not a threat.
What can happen?
It can be unbearable for people who love each other to see their partner enjoy the caresses of another. We are all great owners and do not want to share our loved one with anyone. Jealousy may arise, envy of the external data of another, his technique.
After the first excitement from a pleasant sexual experiment passes, many have a “moral disappointment”, they may feel guilty or offended, they may feel shame or disappointment in themselves. Lost confidence in the partner.
The desire for group sex speaks of your dissatisfaction with your intimate life, and sometimes it is a sign of psychological immaturity, because such sex does not require any spiritual costs.
You still decided to try. First, stock up on condoms, remember about sexually transmitted diseases, and that people who regularly practice group sex are at risk.
Secondly, discuss everything in detail with your partner. What is possible and what is not. Can I kiss? What to do if one partner wants to continue and the other does not?
Discuss who will have sex with whom. This, of course, completely deprives the event of spontaneity, but it will save you from unpleasant surprises.
Ask yourself: how well can you understand each other, talk and peacefully solve problems, if any.
Understand your motives. Did you agree because your partner wants it? If something inside you resists , you should not try.
Agree to keep everything secret: you yourself know what gossip is.