Communication between man and woman consists of three components – sex, friendship and love. Relationships can be harmonious and capable of developing only if all of these components are present. That is, ideally, a relationship is a cocktail of three components mixed in different proportions. Each relationship has its own composition, its own quality of components and its own taste.
What is sex without love? This is such a relationship, the basis of which becomes a joint intimate pastime. The main component of the cocktail is sex, more than half of it. But is there only sex in this cocktail? Have any of you ever had sex with a woman that you didn’t quite like? Or just didn’t like it ?! “And I like all women!” – the 15-year-old school student will declare. “What happens?” – asks the gentle 18-year-old maid.
It happens. If you have already reached the point that a woman has begun to undress, there is no turning back. To wash off at such a moment is like death, for a woman never forgives such a thing. And so it happens … Well, and how, did you like it? But you had an erection, was an orgasm ?! She didn’t lie like cod on a plate, she helped you very enthusiastically and passionately … Your body after all relaxed, as usual. So what did you not like? Is something missing, is it? Yes, the body liked everything. The woman was lively, soft and your body remained satisfied. But there was something … What can you say about this in the end?
1) “It was disgusting! Only in vain did I spend time! ” – that means there was no friendship. And there was no love. Are you ever going to get caught like that? By the way, our own members sometimes lead us out of such a difficult situation in a rather unpleasant way: because of poor psychological well-being, they can simply quiet down and not respond to the callsigns … so it turns out that “it would be better to run away!”.
2) “Well, Nicho, but a little … I did it!” There was no friendship. And there was love … for myself, my beloved. Ah, they say, what a giant I am, an activist of Great Sex, Casanova alive! Common situation? Why was there no friendship? And you are people from different worlds. You are an academician, she is a weaver. You are a turner, she is an artist. And there’s nothing to talk about. Different intelligence, worldview, life goals and values. You had contact with an alien who fell from the moon. God give you if they multiply by budding. And if not?!
Let us leave these troublesome situations and assume that the girl likes you more than she doesn’t.
3) “Oh, she is so sexy. Class, I’m lucky to have put such a lady. We had a rather non-stop rest … ”The wording“ we ”and the merits of the partner testify to the presence of friendship and some respect. And in bed, probably, there was free communication. You went to bed to relax, and everyone got their buzz. But love was to oneself, as the second proposal says. It’s a very acceptable relationship, but you both feel incomplete satisfaction, and that’s bad. Such meetings can continue until one of you finds a partner who will love more or will be more loved.
4) “Buzz! She’s such a charm – tender, smart, sweet in every way. Our last meeting – just shine! I’m waiting, I won’t wait when we have time to meet one more time. ” Here there is friendship and friendship (“we” and a show of respect) and love (“she is such a charm!”). Love for her as a sweet, smart, pleasant woman. Well, and so what if she is not the only smart, sweet and sweet of those you know ?! Would you like her to be the only one, and all the rest – stupid, disgusting and harsh? And she wants to be for you the only one in the world sweet and pleasant – this is so characteristic of a woman! The world, however, will not change from this. Competition and natural selection are laws of nature. Choose and enjoy.