A topic about which unreasonably little has been said is the erogenous zones in men. They, like women, are sensitive to caresses – this is an important part of sex. However, the general opinion is that a man does not need additional stimulation. This is a big misconception inherent in inexperienced women.
What are erogenous zones?
Particular areas of the human body, exposure to which causes increased sexual desire. There are two types: basic (usually the same for different people of the same sex) and additional – peculiar only to this person.
Main
- The head of the male penis.
- Frenulum of the foreskin of the penis.
- The shaft of the penis.
- Scrotum.
Individual points of excitation include the neck, abdomen, inner thighs, lips and back of the head. Sometimes stimulation causes a different reaction – from an increase in desire to irritation, so you should be sensitive to this and recognize your partner from scratch.
glans penis
The most sensitive erogenous zone in men, in which there are many nerve endings. If they reach the peak of excitation, ejaculation passes. Remember that after ejaculation, you should not touch the head – it becomes very sensitive, this can cause discomfort.
Frenulum of the foreskin of the penis
- A large number of nerve endings will allow a man to feel caresses especially sharply. Oral stimulation of a partner with an emphasis on caressing the tongue is best suited. You should not rush – slow movements will make the partner feel more strongly the range of emotions that will fall on him. Instead of oral sex, you can stimulate the frenulum with your hands, but this will require a large amount of lubricant .
shaft of the penis
- The “universal” part of the penis that responds to oral or hand caresses. It’s impossible to guess the pace right away, so be sure to ask your man what gives you more pleasure. Slow or fast progressive movements are best applied in a constant rhythm. According to statistics, men prefer it more.
A curious way to give pleasure to a loved one is to lightly squeeze the penis between the mammary glands so that it can move effortlessly.
Scrotum
A musculoskeletal ” pouch” for a man’s testicles.
- It is distinguished by a large number of points that a woman can stimulate. Gentle touches, massaging and stroking are possible, this will provoke an erection quickly enough.
Additional
There are many additional trigger points. You will have to find them yourself, because everyone’s sensitivity is different.
back of the head
- One of the additional male erogenous zones. It is advised to start with massaging movements, gradually moving to more persistent ones. You can bite, kiss or use your ear to massage the lobes, this will cause moderate arousal and allow you to smoothly move on to the next step. The neck is sensitive, so caress directed at it will have a positive effect.
Foot
- A zone that a girl can also stimulate to make her partner more aroused. There is almost complete freedom of action. Stroke , scratch , most importantly – do not tickle. This knocks the mood and the guy may lose his erection.
Arms
- Acupuncture is a Chinese medical trend that considers the effect on the human body through the impact of needles on specific points on the body. There are acupuncture points on the palms. Acupuncture is, of course, a great idea, but you can use acupressure as a more gentle version. Press on the points carefully.
There are several points for increasing potency:
- Lumbosacral plexus.
- Place below the right costal arch.
- Epigastrium.
- Below the left of the navel.
- Between the navel and pubis
- Testicles. The upper pubic ligament should be rubbed.
Lip contour
One of the most sensitive places. Lovers are kissed in bed, and goodbye, and just like that. This is an expression of love and affection, so the action is invested in the physical and sensual component.
- An important detail is the contour of the lips. For a bright result, run the tip of the tongue along it, alternating kisses. You can lightly touch with your fingertips, face, hands, but most importantly, do it as gently as possible, since the erogenous zone in guys is sensitive and it’s easy to cause pain.
On the sides of the lower chest
- A special nerve is passing through, and we are counting on interaction with it. If everything is done correctly, a pleasant sensation will reverberate in the penis. For girls, this also works, however, the clitoris will already respond with pleasant sensations and growing excitement.
- Stroking the area on the sides below the ribs can provoke laughter from your partner, so press your palm tighter to feel more togetherness. You can kiss or bite lightly – this is allowed and brings positive emotions, the main thing is not to linger for a long time.
Coccyx
- You can start with a back massage, slowly, from the shoulders, going down to the worried zone. The coccyx is rich in nerve endings and is relevant for active caresses. You can move your fingers or tongue, kiss – show all the imagination that is peculiar to you.
Points on the hips
- This refers to the points on the inner side of the thighs, sensitive to gentle touches. There is a tip: try with wet fingers to hold from the middle up, watching your partner. The reaction can be varied. The area is ticklish. To enhance the impression, you can touch your lips, this will excite the man even more and make the continuation more desirable.
How to properly stimulate erogenous points?
With the same impact on erogenous zones, different guys will not have an identical reaction. Therefore, you need to know a few small rules
- It is better not to expose especially sensitive areas to assertive caresses, but, on the contrary, to endow them with tenderness. Pain, of course, causes positive emotions in a number of people, but this is the exception rather than the rule.
- Try to feel your partner, observe, listen. A man will not always say when he liked something or not, but body language at these moments is eloquent.
- Avoid tickling. If the partner suddenly giggled, you can kiss the place, the manipulation of which caused such a reaction.
- Erogenous zones are a very individual thing. If a man does not respond to the caress of the earlobe, you should not think that you are indifferent to him – most likely this point is “sleeping” with him.
Sexologist
Experienced couples experience stagnation in intimate life, boredom. In such cases, doctors advise to “wake up” dormant erogenous points. You may not have known that your husband gets aroused from a light massage of the lower abdomen on the sides or stroking the inside of the knee or elbow . And he probably didn’t even know it.
Go on a journey and make many discoveries of sensitive places unknown to you on your partner’s body. But, do not forget about the feedback rule – give more than take.
Summing up
Sex is an art that cannot be mastered intuitively, dumping everything on a partner. Study each other like an unknown ocean, look for the perfect combinations and what brings pleasure. Do not stop at the usual, because soon it will become boring and intimate life will completely come to naught.