Few people dare to do what they have long dreamed of. To get new sensations, try to discard all prejudices and stereotypes. An anonymous reader has expressed a desire to share his threesome experience and tips on how not to mess it up.
Who can not help the advice from this review:
- in the case when the acquaintance is fleeting and does not imply continuation;
- when you are two same-sex partners who want to get thrills without preparation, offhand;
- when the consequences of the contact do not matter and do not care about the prevailing opinion of the participants, and the plans do not foresee continuation;
Tips for getting new sensations and not getting burned.
If you have lived for more than three years, you have noticed how passion gradually leaves.
One way to add a degree of passion to a relationship is to try a trio meeting. This article is written for established couples seeking to add variety to their sexual relationship. I will write about the male point of view on the issue, based on my experience. It will not be about persuading a partner or about how this can be achieved.
It is understood that your relationship is frank and you can tell each other what desires you experience. If not, then you need to turn to articles that can help you.
Threesome first time experience
The experience of the trio in the first meeting will be a serious test for the relationship of the spouses. This will require especially careful behavior in relation to each other. To do this, you need to make it clear to your partner that the relationship between you is the highest priority for you, and not the invited partner.
If in the course of the session you find your partner dissatisfied, you need to take a break and retire with him to find out the reason, try to inspire him, give him time so that he can calm down. If both of you are no longer uncomfortable, then you can continue, if not, the best option is to end the meeting.
Meeting types
If you decide to meet the three of us, decide on its format.
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Advantages:
- two men will satisfy a girl better than one; simultaneous penetration with four hands, two mouths and two members will bring double pleasure; a woman feels desired and in demand by two partners at once;
- this method will require almost no preparation for the reason that men know the needs of a girl who has trusted such a meeting format;
- everyone knows about the presence of multiple orgasms in women, unlike a man, whose body needs a certain time to recover, so the MZHM trio will be ideal for many hours of continuous extravaganza;
- there is no danger of transferring the microbial environment, provided that the invited man uses a condom;
Flaws:
- a girl must have a trusting relationship with at least one partner in order to be heard; if something did not suit her, one of the men should stop maneuvers that are unpleasant for the woman, change the position or range of motion;
- in the heat of a sexual act, men are able to provoke a woman to have anal sex, which she did not originally want. This is not about coercion, it’s just that the girl did not have time to react due to fatigue, but after the meeting she will remain annoyed and will feel offended. For such situations, a stop word is suitable;
- our country does not have a special disposition towards homophobia, men should understand that in the trio format, accidental contact between men cannot be avoided. If you are afraid of seeing another member erect, you should not subject yourself to this kind of adventure for the sake of mental stability;
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This format is much more complex. Often men, imagining sex with two women, go into ecstasy from one thought, but in fact, after such a meeting format, one of the women, and it is possible that both remain unsatisfied, even if they say the opposite;
Causes:
- the woman was given less time than she would have liked;
- a man was engaged in one partner for a long time, which led to a loss of interest in the second;
- the man ejaculated too quickly due to overexcitation;
- too developed a sense of jealousy in one of the partners;
- the girls began to mentally conduct a comparative analysis of each other’s physical advantages and disadvantages and suffered morally from their results;
But the reason for all the failures of this format is only the lack of male resources of attention and strength for both at once;
Advantages:
- most men delight in possessing two naked women. The video of sexual relations between girls is the most requested in the porn industry because of its spectacle and beauty;
- a similar format reveals enhances sexuality; statistics revealed 72% of women who are bisexual or who want to try it;
Flaws:
- you can easily spoil everything for the above reasons;
- women feel the emotional state more acutely than men and instantly react to the details of the mood of all three, which reduces the degree and severity of the process;
How to smooth out imperfections
- The meeting of the WMW should be prepared in advance, introduce women, find out their tastes, make sure that there is a trusting relationship between partners and that there are no threats of any kind.
- All measures are provided from the transfer of microflora from one partner to another. To avoid doing this with your fingers, you should wash your hands or use an antiseptic before changing partners.
- There are women who do not accept same-sex erotic games. Sometimes such women awaken interest, but not at the first meeting.
It is difficult for one man to cope with two women, so the best option would be to cooperate in a team game in which two partners satisfy the third.
It is better to start with an invited partner, and after the climax, change roles, taking care of your wife together with the invited girl.
Practical advice in general
You can not schedule a meeting so that it goes strictly according to the planned scheme. But the main points can be foreseen.
- All partners should feel sympathy for each other.
- If the meeting has gone into the stage of an orgy, use a stop word that you come up with and agree on in advance.
- According to the advice of sexologists, it is better to exercise sexual abstinence before the meeting, while at the same time including aphrodisiacs in the diet.
- The meeting is best held on neutral territory, unless you own a house outside the city with a guest bedroom in it. Neutral territory gives relaxation to everyone.
- Create an atmosphere of romance with candles, music, flowers, twilight, flowers, chocolate and champagne. Do not use scented candles without getting approval from all partners.
- There is an opinion that the meeting should begin with watching a porn movie. In my opinion, this is dubious advice and depends on the preferences of all partners.
- Stocks of fruit, water, and light snacks should be made, given the relative meaning of the word “light.” Strong alcoholic drinks should be avoided. Be sure to have water!
- Make stocks of lubricants and contraceptives, antiseptics in the form of ” Miramistin “, which is suitable for treating a man’s fingers during the meeting.
You have learned in detail about my observations and experiences of threesome love. After reading, additions or comments to the article may appear, in this case, write and you will receive a comprehensive answer. Good luck to all!