Most novice strippers make the same mistakes, which later cause them problems. Of course, mistakes are useful, because they learn from mistakes, and there is nothing more valuable than personal experience. But still , let me give some recommendations to the girls who are going to work in a strip club as part of an exchange of experience.
Recommendations
1. Never show off your earnings and compliments to colleagues. Experienced and smart strippers to themselves will only laugh at you – they had much more tips and offers to get married, but they keep quiet! Experienced and stupid strippers will envy once or twice, and then they will accuse you of taking their clients away from them and will begin to survive from the club using the most dirty methods.
2. Never show off your earnings to the authorities. The authorities may decide that you live too well and increase the percentage that dancers should unfasten to the club.
3. But do not be discouraged. The authorities may decide that the club does not make sense to keep a stripper who is not successful with men.
The first three points explain why strippers with experience about their earnings usually keep quiet.
4. If a man came with a girl … It’s okay, you can also approach the couples for tips and even consult with them, but! First we approach the girl, we dance for her, and only then to her man for a reward. Why such an order? As the director of a famous strip club said: put yourself in her place!
5. Never complain to club guests about life. Begging, you will cause them no pity, but only the desire to escape from you. The desire to reward you can be caused in a much more worthy way: entertaining the guest with dancing and a pleasant conversation.
6. If bandits have a rest in the club, you won’t earn money for them, but trouble is easy! People are harsh, without sentiment (not like in the movies). Do not be scared: you will behave correctly, nothing will happen to you, bandits and thugs are not the same thing. The bandits have their own “code of honor”, the so-called “concepts”, which they try to follow, if not completely drunk. Just stay modest that night and as far as possible away from them.
What will people say?
Naive modest girls who dream of dancing in a strip club are very concerned about this issue. It seems to them that, becoming strippers, they will turn into social outcasts, everyone around will begin to despise them, shame them, and no one will marry them.
But the question is – who will be ashamed? People come to the strip bar to enjoy beautiful dances performed by beautiful girls. If you are a really beautiful girl and you have a beautiful dance, then the attitude towards you will be appropriate: a mixture of admiration with reverence. Well, they don’t go to nightclubs with the goal of finding a lost sheep there and setting them on the right path!
What will mom say? Most likely, mother and other close relatives will be unhappy, but they, of course , will try to hide this shameful fact from other relatives and friends. Thus, the other relatives and friends will not know anything about it, unless they accidentally wander into the strip bar where you are dancing. If they still get there, and you are still the same beautiful girl with beautiful dance, they will automatically turn into admiring spectators.
What will people think? Most of all, this question worries girls who have decided for themselves that they will not engage in prostitution, but will only dance. No, strippers involved in prostitution, of course, also do not seek to advertise their occupation somewhere other than their usual circle of friends, but this is still a slightly different approach: to make sure that they do not recognize . She is that “Just Dance”, sets the objectives of the Global: to make know that it is not so! They didn’t dare to even think about it badly!
Well, what can I advise? First: relax – nothing will come of it. People who believe that all strippers are prostitutes will remain unconvinced, so don’t even waste time on them.
Second: there is no one to be offended, but you knew what you were doing. If you went to work in a strip club, be prepared for the fact that there will always be someone who will think badly of you . The most amazing thing is that even sincere admiration for your beauty and your dance will not hinder him from thinking badly of you.
Third (which neutralizes the first two): since your choice is now unlimited, you can choose your own circle of contacts, that is, you can only communicate with people who treat you with due respect, and people like you will be surprised to find will prove to be the undisputed majority.
And now – definitions from dictionaries
The stereotype of thinking is a psychological attitude that interferes with the adequate perception of messages or actions. As a rule, a specific person does not realize and / or does not want to realize that he is biased, and considers his attitude to the object of bias as a result of an objective and independent assessment of facts.
Prejudice is usually the result of: – a low cultural level; – suggestions; – hasty and unfounded conclusions based on personal experience.
Social stereotype (from the Greek. Stereos – solid and typos – imprint) – a standardized, stable, emotionally rich, value-specific image, an idea of a social object. An individual may not have enough information about the object and nevertheless make his own judgment, reinforced by feelings and actions.
Notice what color these definitions carry in themselves? “Psychological attitude”, “emotionally saturated”, “judgment supported by feelings”! This explains why, when discussing such topics, very often heated discussions and disputes arise: because the emotional sphere is affected! And not because all the strippers are prostitutes …