More and more men refuse sex, being carried away by porn. Psychologists are already treating adult addiction videos. But the main thing is that more and more men prefer masturbation under video than full sex. Why is this happening and can it be changed?
Statistics say people have less sex . Scientists in Europe, the United States argue that the amount of sex in those born in the 90s of the twentieth century is less than in previous generations. Up to 20% of young people do not have sex until they are 20 years old; those born in the 60s of the last century had less than 6% of people who did not lose their virginity until the age of 21. In Japan, even the name for refusing sex appeared – “celibacy syndrome.” This is a rejection of sex entirely among young people. They do not have sexual intercourse until they are 25-30 years old, losing interest in the process.
Reasons for refusing sex
Name one or two reasons for the decrease in proximity does not work. It is always a combination of factors. The following are distinguished:
- Late adulthood. Young people live longer with their parents, they have no conditions for making love.
- Interest in a career. Much attention is paid to education, not enough time for dates.
- Passion for gadgets and virtuality. Online communication seems more attractive than novels. Entertainment on the Internet attracts more than real people.
- The absence of taboos. Sex has ceased to be forbidden, and this has reduced interest.
- The availability of porn. Masturbation for a movie is much more affordable than sex, and it also requires less time and effort.
The world has changed, and over time the desire for pleasure does not decrease, but the ways to achieve it become different.
Porn replaces sex
In Russia, scientists call porn distribution the biggest problem. It is watching adult films that leads to a decrease in desire. And often faced by adults who have been married for a long time. A man is interested in adult films and refuses physical contact. Why is this happening?
- Masturbation is not energy consuming. It takes 1 to 5 minutes to get relaxation. There are no physically complex movements, and physical fatigue does not occur as a result.
- No need to care about anyone. During sex, you need to pay attention to your partner, monitor her reactions, help to finish too. It is necessary to maintain emotional contact, and this is difficult.
- Sex seems boring. If he is not filled with new emotions, he becomes bored. And only the presence of new sensations can cause interest. But not everyone wants to work on diversity.
- Frequent masturbation complicates intercourse. If porn becomes addictive, then a man watches it for several hours a day and masturbates just as often. Then, with a woman, he simply cannot be aroused; problems arise with an erection or orgasm.
Watching porn is not dangerous if it does not happen often. Self-satisfaction is also a normal process that should be in the life of a man. But it is important to understand that such actions should not adversely affect the intimate life of a couple. And if porn seems more attractive than real sex, you need to change the schedule.
Every year, porn is becoming more interesting, now there is a three-dimensional video, there are 3D glasses. Real virtual reality is addictive, and this will lead to an even greater number of addictions to gadgets and unrealistic sex.
To make sex with your loved one seem brighter, try to diversify intimacy. Use accessories and sex toys to delight each other and discover new sensations.